1. Because even in JBOD the RAID controller controls the disks to such an extent that it's just bad. You are technically not in JBOD mode. If you were you wouldn't have individual RAIDs like your screenshot shows. In effect, there is no difference between doing individual RAIDs for each disk and doing a full-blown RAID. *Any* hardware RAID in any fashion is a fail. To boot, most RAID controllers mask the SMART data, which is the other main reason. There's a ton more, but the reality is that any raid controller, unless it can run in passthrough mode (which yours clearly isn't from the screenshot) is a way to lose your data. The only viable solution is to get a real controller that is appropriate for ZFS.
2. Because of how ZFS handles it's data the writes become too wide, which hurts the pools performance.
3. Statistically, your chances are extremely slim of getting your data back. I used to offer data recovery services, but I don't even offer to do hardware RAID recovery because the chances are so low that I feel guilty taking people's money for something with such a low chance of success. There is no "process" to recover the pool from a failure of this type. In fact, there are very little "processes" for recoving a damaged pool. You literally have to figure out what the problem is with your pool, then attempt to resolve the problem. Unless you are a ZFS expert you are not going to understand what you are looking at when doing ZFS debugging, and doing things willy-nilly based on Google results are a really bad idea. Of course, you have nothing to lose at this point. But if you are considering paying some company 5-figures (no joke, that's how much it will cost) then I would *not* try to do anything yourself as you can make recovery impossible. This is why my noobie presentation says there are no recovery tools for ZFS. There are literally no options for those of us that didn't win the lottery recently. ;)
ZFS is far more reliable than hardware RAID, when you set it up properly and manage it properly. Large companies that are sick and tired of lost/corrupted data from hardware RAID are switching to ZFS. The real problem is that if you don't take care of ZFS it can blow up in your face (as it has unfortunately for you). The bad news is that you aren't the first one I've dealt with this month to make your exact mistake (I think you're the 4th or 5th) and I'll probably see one or two more before the end of the month. This is not fixable in software as this is considered user-error and not a programming problem. :/
A good analogy would be a car versus a horse-pulled carriage. You could argue with the fact that a car needs oil changes, new brakes regularly, new tires, and all this other maintenance and that makes the car inappropriate for transportation where a horse doesn't as much maintenance. The reality is that if you know what you are doing and manage it properly a car is far superior to a horse-pulled carriage.
This is the part where I say "You have backups, right?" and you respond with "Absolutely!". ;)