If for any reason I unmount the shared drive over the 10gbe connection and mount it again the finder will choose to mount over the 1gbe connection. (i ran speed tests to confirm) So everytime I want to mount the shared drive over 10gbe I have to go to the network panel and turn off the 1gbe network, then mount over 10gbe and then turn on 1gbe so I can have internet access and access to other computers on the network. Its kinda of annoying and wish I didnt have to do that. below I made a diagram of my setup. IF I cut off the 1gbe connection then I loose internet and access to other computers in the building.
@Constantin we have a switch with 4 sfp+ ports but we are unable to run cables to the other side of the building or purchase sfp+ to rj45 adapters.